Follow Schully's Journey with Fresh Start Fitness!

Step 4: Strength & Cardio

It’s hard to believe we are nearing the end of this program! However, Lori’s journey will continue (undocumented) for a long time to come. She has progressed so much already and I will provide on-going guidance as needed.

 Step 4 has been fun for us. Although Lori has been working out consistently throughout this program, we decided to change it up a bit. Over the past few weeks we have been trying out different exercise classes together in addition to her twice weekly workouts with me. The first and by far the funniest class was at a place called “Perspirology.” We unknowingly entered a dance-cardio workout with a room filled of 20-somethings. The music was so loud we couldn’t hear what the instructor saying as she cued the next move. And did I mention that the room was heated to 92 degrees? Mostly off-beat and a step behind everyone else, we made it through. But the instructor was lovely and encouraged us to come back again. We’ll see.

 We tried another studio called “Renaissance.” It was a beautiful space with a super cool vibe. I was very impressed with the instructor’s level of knowledge and her precise cueing of the movements. This class was all about body weight exercises, balance, stability and flexibility.

 There are several more on our list including Orange Theory and a trampoline class, so stay tuned to social media for recaps on these!


Cardio & Strength is such an important component to this program, and it seems to be a step that Lori is really enjoying. It boosts endorphins, increases strength and stamina and allows her to feel good about herself. We are definitely pushing limits here but it’s a great way for her to step out of her comfort zone and realize that she can do anything she sets her mind to.

 Overall, I think this phase has allowed Lori to see real changes in her body - not just weight loss - which has really boosted her confidence! This is crucial when going through a divorce, as you often get down on yourself and your self esteem suffers. Having that sense of self-worth and value also allows you to fight for things that are important to you.

 I continue to be proud of her everyday through this difficult divorce process. She is handling it with grace and fortitude, even when things seem unfair.

Keep checking in on Lori and offering her your support and encouragement. It really helps! 


I liked learning to meditate, I now love yoga, and the healthy eating has been a challenge - but now, at last comes my sweet spot: Cardio and Strength. I was really looking forward to this because, I know it sounds weird, but I have always loved to exercise. I love a class: being told what to do, seeing improvement, feeling strong. I get why this is step 4 and not step 1; I needed to get to this point to know how great it feels just to move, sweat and feel stronger.

In general, I am starting to feel like a lean, mean workout machine! And feeling stronger extends to all parts of my life. It make me feel like I am really putting myself first – it is really, truly “me” time and because of that, I am able to tackle the challenges of life.

Plus exercising – taking Jenn’s class in the Central Park, trying something new or hopping on a bike at Soulcycle – just FEELS GREAT! And that feeling of strength and a little invincibility extends into the rest of my life. Who doesn’t want to feel like that!
— Schully

Step 3: Nutrition

We’ve made it to Step 3: Nutrition. This is a tough one for many people, including Schully; she let us know that she has struggled with food for most of her life. Stress, emotional turmoil and anxiety are triggers for her to eat. Because of this, we have spent a bit more time on this step of the program. We want to make sure she has the tools to maintain healthy eating behaviors throughout her divorce process and beyond. 

For the past few weeks, she’s been tracking her food using My Fitness Pal. She enters in everything related to her meals and snacks -  what, when, where, how and how much. We also look at how she’s feeling that day and identify any emotional triggers. As expected, her patterns determined that she truly is a stress-eater. That’s why it’s become important for us to really examine her habits around food: what are her triggers? How and why do they cause her to overeat? What are the foods she tends to gravitate towards when she’s feeling anxious?

Once we learned and assessed the patterns, we needed to address it and set up an action plan. For instance, when her emotions were running high, she would reach for salty, high-fat snacks: french fries, chips, etc. The connection was strong and immediate. Afterwards, she wouldn’t feel well, physically or emotionally. She felt guilty after the fact, but not in the moment. The key was to get her to “feel” the after-effects without actually participating in the behavior. Before she reached for those fries, I would ask her to stop for one moment and pretend she’d already eaten them. “How do you feel?”, I’d ask. “Like I don’t really want to have them anymore”, she’d reply. We were making progress. 


Next, we looked at her portion sizes of the healthy choices she was making. Eating grilled fish, veggies and complex carbs was great, but we had to be intentional about portion sizes as well. By using the rule of eating until she was 80% full, we were slowly making changes in portion-controlling. This is a technique that takes some time to adjust to, but will be a game changer in the long run. 

In order to employ the 80% rule, we needed to slow down her eating. Simple things like focused meals without the distraction of TV or phone, setting the fork down after each bite and taking sips of water between them as well - these may sound silly or obvious, but the fact is that we are all guilty of mindless meals. Eating from a container, standing up at your kitchen counter is not focused eating. Getting Schully to sit at a table in a designated area (kitchen/dining room) and putting food on a plate began to help her  make the connection to slow and mindful eating.

While Schully isn’t following a specific food plan per se, we are making adjustments as we go along and experimenting with a variety of techniques. She isn’t following a strict keto, paleo or diet-of-moment, but we have reduced her simple carbohydrate intake as well as dairy and meat consumption. We have also tried some intermittent fasting methods (which I am a proponent of) and she has had weight loss success with those. 

As with all of the steps thus far, one builds on the next and nutrition will be a continuous part of this process (I mean, she can’t exactly give up food, right?) There is much more to come regarding healthy eating - the pitfalls and successes, the struggles and strategies - so let’s keep cheering Schully on in support of her healthy lifestyle!


When you say “Eat Healthy,” that sounds so easy – but the truth is that “Nutrition” has been my greatest challenge so far. Keeping a food journal – chronicling every morsel that goes into my mouth – has been hard. Being honest with myself and taking ownership of the food choices I make is difficult, but choosing a kale chip over a potato chip just makes me feel in control of all of my actions. I am losing weight, which makes my clothes fit better, which makes me feel more confident, which then puts me in a better place for facing the other challenges going on in my life.

It is kind of a metaphor for this whole process - figuring out the balance of how you can enjoy life without feeling totally deprived. I am not fully there yet, but getting close. I think anyone trying to change their eating habits is going to have a period of adjustment – the trick is actually staying consistent and focused and to keep your eyes on the prize – which is a better, healthier, happier me.
— Schully

Step 2: Yoga

We have entered the second step in our Fresh Start Fitness Program: Yoga. Strategically placed after meditation, yoga will incorporate movement with breath and a more peaceful mind. Since we now understand how to look inward and focus on the connection between mind and body, yoga flows (pun intended) naturally into the next phase of our program.

While moving slowly and intentionally into challenging poses (asanas), yoga allows us to be fully in the present. As we hold these asanas, however uncomfortable, we adjust in them and breathe through the discomfort. You will connect with the areas of your body where you hold tension and allow your breath to let it go.

As you focus your attention on how your body moves through space, you will likely become aware of imbalances, restricted mobility in certain areas or lack of flexibility. These are all okay. It’s okay if you can’t sit in a crossed legged position or if you can’t balance in tree pose. Every individual is unique. We have different body types and levels of strength and flexibility. Some of us may be injured or have never taken a single yoga class while others may be practicing for 30 years or have hyper-mobile joints! The point is, do not compare yourself to others. Although it is tempting to look around the room and envy your classmate who is in that perfect side crow, stop. Yoga is an individual practice. It is for YOU alone. Have patience with yourself.

Patience and present moment awareness are essential in getting the most out of your yoga practice. It’s not necessary to rush through your chatarungas just to get to the next pose. Each movement in yoga should be deliberate - not necessarily precise - but if we move through our practice at lightening speed, we are not accomplishing anything. Yoga should be a sacred time for you to learn, grow and expand your mental and physical body. To me, yoga is a combination of effort and ease. It’s learning how to adjust to discomfort without fearing it. No one likes to be uncomfortable so we do whatever it takes to remove ourselves from the situations that evoke that feeling. What would happen if we leaned into it instead of trying to escape? I promise, you will survive.

The benefits of a regular yoga practice go beyond increased flexibility, improved posture and better balance. It is a great practice for stress relief, reduced anxiety and deeper sleep too. Restorative yoga or yoga nidra gives our nervous systems a chance tounwind and rest. When going through stressful transitions such as divorce, these are areas of particular importance. Our thoughts will inevitably distract us, but the more you practice and by taking slow, conscious breaths we can bring ourselves back into our bodies.

Get access to Jenn’s yoga classes by signing up for Fresh Start Fitness today!

I NEVER thought yoga was for me – my workouts were always some combination of moving fast and sweating a lot. I tried yoga in earnest a few months ago (at Jenn’s urging.) In the first class, I was completely lost and spent a lot of time looking around the room to see if I was doing it “right.” It took a few classes to learn that yoga is not a competitive sport but a “practice” that there is no right or wrong way, there is only my way.

I have become a regular in my hot yoga class now. I love the fact that I don’t think about anything else while there – it is total “me” time. The stress of life is put on hold and replaced with a complete sense of peace, focus and concentration. I feel stronger, calmer and prepared to face whatever comes next.
— Schully

Step 1: Meditation

I chose meditation to be the first step in this program for many reasons. As you make any transition in life (especially a divorce), you need space in your heart and mind to get clear on things. Taking quiet time for yourself - sitting with your thoughts and feelings, as painful or difficult as they may be is critical to this holistic approach to healing.

While there are many forms of meditation, for Lori I decided to begin with mindfulness and body scanning. The purpose of this method is to allow her first to physically relax each area of the body. As we scan from head to toe, we can identify any areas where she may be holding tension or tightness. This usually means she is holding onto some form of emotional trauma that is manifesting in her body. We work to progressively reduce the “gripping” feeling by breathing into each area; with slow, deep inhalations and long, expelling exhalations, she starts to unwind.

Using some visualization techniques and language such as “melting into the earth”, “softening into stillness” and “surrendering”, we begin to notice subtle changes in her physical body. The breath is super important to this stage and helps to further relax the muscles.


At this point (or sometimes before beginning), I like to set an intention for the practice. If you are familiar with yoga, this is often done at the beginning of class and used as a reminder throughout your practice, then revisited at the end. Your intention can be anything you want it to be. Think of it as your “why,” or your purpose. It can be a simple phrase like “I want to feel more grounded” or “I want to have more patience.” This is different (in my opinion) than a mantra. A mantra doesn’t have to be limited to just your meditation or yoga practice. A mantra is something that you can refer to throughout your day, it can replace a negative thought or it can shift your energy to a more positive place. A mantra is not just an Instagram meme - more on that as we follow Lori on her “journey” (she hates when I use that word).

Back to our meditation: we begin to notice thoughts next. The key here is to truly notice. Many people think they can’t meditate because they don’t know how to stop their thoughts. Well, no one does. Meditation is not the absence of thoughts, it’s the non-attachment to them. Simply letting a thought in, acknowledging it for a moment and letting it go right back out. It’s easy to get lost in thoughts and let them carry out a story that may or may not be true, or allow them to take over completely - segueing from one to the next and before you know it, you are anxious or angry or trying to problem-solve. By practicing this method of non-attachment, each thought simply drifts through and floats away. 

This takes practice, which is why they call it, um, a practice. There is no right or wrong way to meditate. You can do it for 1 minute or 30 minutes. You can do it anywhere. Anyone can meditate, and I encourage you to find a practice that suits you, your goals and your lifestyle best. Explore the options. Find your style and embrace the benefits. You’ll be pleasantly surprised at how it can change your perspective and calm the chaos in your daily life.

Get access to Jenn’s guided meditation by signing up for Fresh Start Fitness today!

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When I first thought about meditating, I didn’t think it was for me – truthfully I felt a little silly sitting alone and just breathing. It was next to impossible to get all the stress of my life out of my head. But after giving it a try, I actually find that it completely calms me down - it is especially useful when trying to go to sleep. Using Jenn’s guided meditation or using a meditation app on my phone helps me focus, relax, calm myself down, think about what I am trying to achieve in my life going forward, shaking off whatever happened that day, and even fall asleep. Most times I don’t even get to the end!
— Schully

Meet Schully & Fresh Start Fitness

Meet Lori, affectionately known as Schully. She is a hard-working Producer for Live with Kelly and Ryan, one of the highest rated daytime talk shows in the country. She has called this her home for almost 24 years. Her actual home is on the Upper East Side of Manhattan with her beloved rescue dog, Oliver. She grew up in Katonah, NY as the oldest of five siblings in a tight-knit family, then moved to NYC shortly after graduating from Northwestern University.

Schully is friendly, outgoing and fun to be around. Her positive energy is infectious, she is generous (sometimes to a fault), and her upbeat personality often garners much attention from her TV hosts as well - so she may look a little familiar to you!

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Why is she the subject of this post you’re wondering? Well, she is about to go through a major change in her life and we want to help her though it. 

After 12 years together and 9 years of marriage, she and her husband are getting divorced. We will not be diving into the details of the split but instead, focusing on her journey and the steps she can take to heal and thrive throughout this process and beyond.

She is ready to feel confident and strong, brave and unafraid; she wants to say goodbye to her old self, once and for all. She is ready to let go and embark on the next chapter: the best chapter. So we’re going to be with her as she works through our program, Fresh Start Fitness.

Jenn, founder of Trainers in Transit and overcomer of divorce herself, partnered with Worthy to create a program designed to help women live and thrive in a healthy way during and after a divorce.

The program includes:

Meditation: step out of the chaos, quiet your mind and let go of your thoughts with 10-minute, guided meditation sessions.
Yoga: follow a yoga routine that will help you release the negative emotions from your divorce and feel more centered.
Nutrition: divorce can disrupt your eating habits. Jenn's guide to clean eating will help you make balanced, healthy (and realistic) choices.
Cardio + strength workout: boost your confidence with a selection of exercises designed to make you feel empowered and able to achieve anything!

Sign yourself up for Fresh Start Fitness here!


As Schully begins our Fresh Start Fitness program this coming #FreshStartFriday, we will be beside every step of the way. Use #schullyshares to watch her transformation, post encouraging words and cheer her on!

Amanda Gay